I am SOOO excited about the time we are now living in!  I have to admit I LOVED the time of COVID! Not because of people getting sick and dying, but because I quit my 23 year career as an aircraft mechanic and started REALLY working on myself.  I broke down all the things I hated about my life and took a long look at the commonality, ME. Not blaming ANYONE else for what has happened in my life, no matter the reason. It’s about taking responsibility for my individual part of t

I have been thinking a lot lately about how to see similarities in people on all sides of the equation.  You may or may not know this about me but one of my side hustles (HAHAHA! I don’t make money on it “yet”) is studying people, their interactions, behavior, relationships, and idiosyncrasies. I have been doing it my whole life, originally what I called “people watching”. Then I started learning nuances about body language through sporadic bits of information coming in throu

I am constantly fighting the extremely strong desire to hibernate/hide and isolate. At the same time I also have the desire to be LOUD, speak truth to ALL the things.  It's really difficult because when I hide I get criticized for playing small and then when I get loud I get criticized for being self righteous.  I have spent the last year really spending most of the time completely by myself. To see what I like, what I want, who I really am. This process has been difficult be